10 Luxe Micro Wedding Experiences for under 20K

Who knew that 2020 would be the year that intimate weddings stole the show? While we firmly believe that less is more, we’re relived to see that the wedding world is finally catching on.

Here at Desigend by Delsie , we're always thinking outside the box , brainstorming creative wedding ideas, and thinking about what would make your day the experience of the century. Every detail matters when it comes to telling your story. We also understand that each couple that we work with is very unique and a memorable celebration for the big day is non-negotiable.

But here's a secret: non negotiable , extraordinary, and glam doesn’t have to cost millions (not unless you want it to). More and more couples are opting to host smaller intimate celebrations, also known as microweddings , that allow for hyper-custom details at extraordinary venues. The experience would not be the same with a larger guest list. Intimate weddings allow you to invest in creating a marvelous time for your guests. We thought we would do you a favor by highlighting some of our favorite New England experiences to consider for your next soiree. These “turn-key” celebrations are available through our Intimate Wedding Experience packages. a full service planning program to account for every detail, without the fuss and a whole lot of frills.

  1. A Theatrical Performance at the VETS

    Providence, RI

If you don’t mind planning your wedding on a whim, the VETS Memorial Auditorium is the perfect setting for the theatrical couple seeking to make an opulent, grand statement. Nestled in the heart of downtown Providence, Rhode Island, this venue is just steps away from several hotels and the local train station, making it an accessible location for traveling guests. In addition to being mesmerized by breathtaking architecture, your guests will savor a decedent 5-course meal on center stage, all while being entertained by live musicians, dancers, and performers.

Starting at $18k for 25 guests

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2. The Art of Entertaining at Candita Clayton Gallery

Pawtucket, RI

This experience is designed exclusively for art lovers and creatives. Candita Clayton Gallery is a true hidden gem. With soaring floor-to-ceiling windows, rustic hardwood floors, and over 1500 square ft. of event space, the gallery is the perfect space to host your special day. We just love the idea of celebrating your love with an exhibit as the backdrop for your ceremony. We recommend our bottomless brunch celebration, featuring a mimosa bar with fresh herbs, freshly squeezed juices, gourmet bites and a harpist to entertain your guests. Of course, an art gallery experience would not be complete without a caricature artist . Not a fan of early mornings? Not a problem. consider a “small-plate” cocktail party with fancy libations to celebrate your love.

Starting at $12K for 40 guests

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3. A Sunset Ceremony and Gondola Ride on the River at Francesca’s at Waterplace

Providence, RI

Not only do we adore Francesca, Owner and Floral Designer of Francesca’s at Waterplace, this location is an absolute “must” for a quintessential Providence experience. Say “I do” with the City’s skyline view as your backdrop, then celebrate with a lazy river tour on a gondola to celebrate your love. Upon return, Your private dinner experience awaits in this modern, contemporary venue on the water with floor to ceiling windows, organza draping, polished granite floors, and a fireplace. The evening wouldn’t be complete without live jazz performed by one of Providence’s favorite Jazz bands, Mike Rollins and Co.

Bonus Tip: This venue has a front row seat to the world famous Waterfire experience. 2020 and 2021 dates are still available.

Starting at 15K for 30 guests

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4. A “Just Right” Moonlight Experience at Just Right Farm

Plympton, MA

Ideal for the nature loving, eco-friendly couple, Just Right Farm is the right experience for you if you seek to be close to the city for ease of access, yet desire a retreat-style setting with privacy. As your guests drive down a narrow road, they will be greeted with Kim’s famous sweet tea wile they soak in the beautiful views of nature. The flower garden is the perfect backdrop for the ceremony, which also gives the farm’s goats a perfect view of the action. For cocktail hour, we’ll arrange for a garden fresh craft cocktail demo for your guests as they enjoy lawn games, the labyrinth, and a live music performance from a Spanish guitarist. As the sun begins to set, you’ll enter into an oasis of bliss as you savor one of the Region’s most iconic farm-to-table dining experiences.

Starting at $18k for up to 36 guests.

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5. Set Sail on Boston Harbor + An Island Clambake

Our New England intimate experiences would’t be complete without a tour of Boston Harbor with a Sam Adam’s and “chow-dah” on Spectacle Island. As you arrive to the destination, you’ll be greeted by the pleasant smells and sights of the the coastal seafood prepared by the city’s top chefs in true authentic clambake fashion. We recommend adding a steel drum band to cocktail hour to elevate the vibe. And let’s not forget the bibs, picks and pales for dinner. Complete this experience with ice-cream and sweets from FOMU

Starting at $18K for 25 guests

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6. A Secret Garden Soiree at the RISD Museum

Can’t you tell that we have a passion for art? If you share this love, Consider the RISD Museum for your intimate wedding celebration. Following your nuptials, a private tour of the famous Gorham Silver Exhibit can be arranged as an unexpected surprise for your guests. As you enter into the garden, your guests will be greeted by the vibrant sounds of the quartet, decadent loose leaf teas, and savory and sweet bites. For a moonlight affair, swap the tea for “bubbly” and the savory sandwiches for canapes and you have yourself an unforgettable cocktail experience.

Stating at $15K for 25 guests.

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7. A Mystery Dinner Party at the Governor Henry Lippitt House

Take a step back in time to the Governor Henry Lippitt House for a dinner party to remember for a lifetime. For our mystery loving couples that seek to have anything but an ordinary wedding celebration, this experience is certainly one to consider. Do you share a favorite book or movie? The theme can be customized to suit your desires. In addition to a live theatrical performance, your guests will have the museum all to themselves in true VIP fashion.

Starting at $15k for 25 guests

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8. A Regal Wedding Weekend at a Newport Mansion

Newport, RI

Yes- you’ve heard that right.

When a wedding day just isn’t enough time to celebrate with your nearest and dearest, consider a planning a weekend wedding getaway with up to 20 of your loved ones at the Cliffside Inn. You wont have to go far to experience all that Newport, RI has to offer. In addition to gourmet meals prepared by a private chef, luxe accommodations overlooking the world famous Cliffwalk, and the wedding day itself, private tours can be arranged for local sights such at The Breakers, the Tennis Hall of Fame, or a trip to Sakonnet Vineyards. This experience also includes a personal concierge available 24/7 for your guests.

Starting at 19K for 20 guests. Accommodations sold separately

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9. Botanical Brilliance at the Roger Williams Botanical Center

Where is the best place in New England to have an epic dance party? A The Roger Williams Botanical Center, of course. In addition to the exotic backdrop of plants and flowers, what we love most about this venue is that although it is a larger space with a capacity of 180 guests, it is perfect for parties both large and small.

An epic dance party wouldn’t be complete without a flair bartender, interactive food stations, and a high energy DJ to keep your guests in high spirits. This experience will keep you dancing under the stars all evening.

Starting at $18K for 50 guests

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10. A Fairytale Wedding at the “Gingerbread House”.

As a child, if you have ever dreamed of a “storybook” wedding, Designed by Delsie can make your dreams come true. Nestled in the small town of Tyringham, MA Santarella is an historic icon, dating back to the 1700’s, this gem has been a site for magical weddings for centuries. For a quintessential romantic Berkshire wedding experience, consider this venue for your special day.

Starting at $18K for 30 guests.

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Interested in booking one of our experiences?